When first getting into this type of product, the most common mistake beginners make is "wanting too much, too fast." They think that as long as they apply enough, with a high enough concentration, the time can be extended indefinitely. I went through the same phase myself—I bought products that stung and burned the moment they touched my skin. Not only did I fail to enjoy the experience, but the excessive numbness left me with zero sensation, and I even developed skin irritation. That experience was truly paying good money for a bad deal.

The essence of topical endurance products is to reduce sensitivity through physical means or mild local numbing. The market is flooded with all kinds of options, from sprays to creams, and while the principle is largely the same, the experience varies wildly.

Let's start with cream-based products, such as Okajima Japan. Many people ask me how to choose between creams and sprays. The advantage of creams lies in their even absorption and generally gentler formulas, which avoid the localized over-numbing that sprays often cause with their "one spray covers too much" issue. It acts more like a lubricating and protective layer, making creams a better entry-level choice for users with sensitive skin or those seeking comfort.

When shopping, be sure to watch out for these pitfalls:

First, the price trap. Products online that cost a few dozen yuan with free shipping often have vague ingredient lists. For reputable brands, the cost of endurance creams or sprays mainly goes into extraction processes and safety testing. If the price is absurdly low, would you really dare to apply it to your body? Generally, the market price for legitimate topical endurance products ranges from 150 to 400 yuan, and products within this range offer better safety assurance.

Second, ingredient anxiety. Many products add excessive amounts of anesthetic ingredients like lidocaine to achieve "instant results." Overusing such products not only creates dependency but also diminishes your pleasure. I recommend starting with products like EROS Yilusi, which focus on plant extracts. These aim for endurance rather than complete numbness, offering a much more natural experience.

Third, usage mistakes. Many people use the product immediately upon receiving it, which is a huge mistake. No matter which one you buy, endurance products need time to absorb. It's usually recommended to apply 30-60 minutes before intimate activity, allowing the ingredients to fully penetrate, then rinse off any excess. If you jump straight to the next step right after applying, not only will the effect fail to kick in, but you might also transfer the product to your partner, causing them discomfort.

When choosing a specific product, I suggest selecting based on your needs:

If it's your first time trying and you want a gentle, non-numbing experience, consider classic models like German Black Diamond, or cream-based options like Okajima Japan, which strike a good balance in controlling the numbing sensation. If you already have some experience and want stronger endurance effects, then highly concentrated versions like EROS Yilusi might suit you better. But remember, no matter which you choose, always start with the smallest dose. It's better to add more if the effect isn't enough than to apply too much at once and end up "shutting down."

Finally, safety reminders must be taken seriously. If you have broken skin, rashes, or if your partner is trying to conceive or is pregnant, absolutely do not use these products. If redness, swelling, or itching occurs after use, wash it off immediately and stop using it. Don't sacrifice your health for the sake of so-called "endurance"—that's the real survival rule for seasoned users.